It’s a warm, balmy summer evening, and even the thought of wearing underwear or high heels feels uncomfortable. But you’ve got a date with a gorgeous man at a local restaurant—and of course, you want to look attractive and feel your best.
So what do you wear that feels cool, comfortable, and relaxed, while still looking stylish, modern, and not overdone?
What “overdone” means really depends on your context. Where are you going? What is the environment you live in like? Something considered formal in one part of the country might be seen as casual in another.
Here are some tips on choosing an outfit for your date
- Dresses – an easy and reliable option for a date; choose a style that flatters your figure the most.
- Skirts – feminine and flirty, making them a great choice for a romantic setting.
- Jewelled flats – if heels aren’t your thing, go for a sparkling sandal or embellished flat shoe instead.
- Built-in detail – opt for tops that already have interesting features, such as an embellished neckline, unique construction, or a pattern. This reduces the need for heavy accessories while still looking stylish.
- Style recipe – make sure your outfit reflects your personal style so your date gets a true sense of who you are, rather than you trying to be someone else.
- Fabrics – choose lightweight materials, preferably natural fibres, to stay cool and comfortable.
- Colour – embrace colours that feel summery and expressive; instead of reaching for a classic LBD, pick shades that communicate more personality.
Orange conveys warmth and friendliness, making it great for encouraging easy, flowing conversation.
Red feels passionate and exciting—there’s even some interesting research about wearing red on dates that you might find intriguing.
Pink creates a sense of warmth and care, helping you appear more approachable and nurturing.
Deep purple gives off a sophisticated and slightly mysterious vibe.
- Strappy sandals are a great choice as they help keep your feet cool and prevent sweating.
- To draw attention upward, choose dangling earrings—especially ones with a bit of sparkle.
There you have it—a figure-flattering outfit. If you’re unsure what works best for your body shape, you can try my free body shape calculator quiz for guidance. Or, if you’d prefer a more personalised approach, my professional advice is available through the 7 Steps to Style program.